Remember Your Purpose

In the grand tapestry of music history, there’s a chapter that resonates deeply with those of us seeking inspiration in our own journeys. It’s the story of The Beatles, that legendary band whose rise to stardom seemed like a fairytale, but whose beginnings were marked by struggle and rejection.

Before they were hailed as icons of Beatlemania, before their records flew off the shelves and stadiums echoed with the screams of adoring fans, The Beatles were just four lads trying to make their mark. They faced empty venues, disinterested audiences, and the harsh sting of rejection from record labels. Yet, amidst these challenges, they clung to a shared vision, a dream that propelled them forward despite the odds.

One particular anecdote from their early days shines brightly as a beacon of leadership and resilience. Picture this: John Lennon, the soulful voice and guiding force of the band, rallying his comrades with a simple call and response:

John: “Where are we going, fellas?”

The Band: “To the top, Johnny!”

John: “And where’s that, fellas?”

The Band: “To the toppermost of the poppermost!”

In those moments of doubt and adversity, Lennon embodied the essence of leadership – a potent blend of motivation, compassion, and unwavering vision. They shared what Eric Jensen aptly terms a “gaudy goal,” an audacious dream to transcend boundaries and become the very best.

Reflecting on this story, I’m reminded of my own journey as a leader. Like The Beatles, we all encounter setbacks and moments of uncertainty. It’s easy to lose sight of our purpose, to succumb to the weight of despair. Yet, in those dark moments, we must summon the courage to fix our gaze upon the horizon and press onward.

I recall a pivotal moment when a wise colleague shook me from my reverie of doubt. With a gentle yet firm reminder of my purpose, she urged me to lift my head high and embrace the mantle of leadership. It was a wake-up call I sorely needed, a beacon of light cutting through the fog of self-doubt.

This wise colleague was our school secretary. She gave me a very much needed quick wake-up call when I was facing a setback and I was wearing every bit of it on my sleeve. I was walking into her office with my head hanging low and looking like a poster child for The Blues. She simply told me:

“Remember your purpose. Fix your face and go be our principal.”

It was truly a stark moment, but it was the moment I needed. I had a responsibility to not only get out of my doldrums, but I had to remember that I had others relying upon me. It is totally acceptable to pause in the moment and be human. I also needed that verbal kick in the pants to get back into my core as a leader and remember why I started the gig there in the first place. Her words energized me, and I ended up having a better rest of the day.

Later that day, I made it a point to thank our school secretary. I shared my gratitude at her sincere honesty and comfort with calling her principal out in a good way. I really needed that. I shared and I asked her to never hesitate for calling me out again. She was modest in her acceptance of my thanks. I did ask that she continue to give me that motivating push if she ever caught me slipping into the leadership blues. She smiled and gladly acquiesced to my request. It’s important to express our gratitude but to also find trusted colleagues who will take the time to motivate and help us stay focused on our purpose.

Gratitude, too, plays a crucial role in our journey. We must acknowledge those who uplift us, who lend a helping hand when the path grows rocky. In expressing our thanks, we foster a culture of support and encouragement, one where each member plays a vital role in the collective pursuit of greatness.

Leadership, I’ve come to realize, extends far beyond titles and accolades. It resides in the depths of our being, in the unwavering commitment to empower and uplift those around us. It’s a journey of self-discovery, of embracing our humanity and vulnerability, even as we strive to inspire others to reach new heights.

So, as we navigate the winding road of leadership, let us remember the lessons of The Beatles – the power of shared vision, the resilience in the face of adversity, and the importance of staying true to our purpose. Together, let us soar to the toppermost of our own poppermost, igniting the flames of inspiration in every heart we touch.

Tuning into Possibilities: A Lesson in Leadership from The Beatles

As someone who proudly wears the badge of a “Beatles Encyclopedia,” my journey in music appreciation is a perpetual adventure. The joy I derive from delving into the world of music, particularly the legendary band that holds a special place in my heart, knows no bounds. If you were to step into my home office, you’d find it adorned with shelves filled to the brim with books dedicated to none other than “The Beatles.” I’ve devoured so many books over the years on this iconic band that I could probably recite passages from memory. (I’d likely be of little help in the book refuge depicted in Fahrenheit 451!)

Currently, my literary journey has led me to “The Lyrics” by Paul McCartney. Released just last year in hardcover, I couldn’t resist adding the paperback edition to my collection. This remarkable book sees McCartney opening up about the stories and personal anecdotes behind the songs that defined his tenure with The Beatles and his solo career. In the book’s introduction, McCartney shares an anecdote from the early days of The Beatles that, surprisingly, I had never encountered before.

Let me share a quick recap. Picture the scene: The Beatles, in the nascent stages of their career, find themselves on a wintry night journeying between gigs. Suddenly, their van skids on ice, careening off the road and down an embankment. Miraculously, no one is hurt, but they’re left stranded. Amidst the chaos, McCartney recalls a pivotal statement uttered by someone in the band: “Something will happen.” This simple phrase quickly became a rallying cry for The Beatles whenever faced with adversity or uncertainty. I try to envision when this statement would echo at various stages during The Beatles trajectory as a band. It is a tantalizing game to play in imagining when this line would be appropriate.

The profound simplicity of this statement struck a chord with me as I immersed myself in McCartney’s book. It served as a poignant reminder that even the idols we admire are, at their core, human. “Something will happen” encapsulates a resolute hope, reminding us that amidst seemingly insurmountable odds, the realm of possibility remains wide open.

Reflecting on this mantra, I couldn’t help but draw parallels to my own journey as a principal and school leader. In the face of daunting challenges, “Something will happen” embodies a steadfast belief in the power of resilience and perseverance. It speaks to the essence of our roles as leaders, tasked with navigating complex landscapes against all odds. We have to tune into possibilities on a daily basis. Additionally, we have to encourage others to tune into possibilities as we educate and empower the kids we serve.

Recently, our team encountered a situation demanding swift action and collaboration. In its aftermath, I found myself echoing a similar mantra to reassure my colleagues: “We responded. We were there for others.” I have echoed this statement many times as a leader to serve as a salve for others who support during a crisis. This instance brought to mind The Beatles and their mantra, reinforcing the notion that amidst uncertainty, hope prevails.

My mantra, “We responded,” shares the same essence and intention as The Beatles’ rallying cry. As leaders, it’s our responsibility to provide comfort and empowerment through compassionate words and actions. Whether serving as a soothing balm in times of crisis or bringing clarity to chaos, our words hold the power to inspire and uplift. Being intentional with our words is a necessary move as a leader. We are the navigators of our narrative and we must choose our words with care, compassion, and intention.

Stepping back and reflecting on our experiences is not just advisable; it’s imperative for effective leadership. Taking stock of our decisions and actions allows us to glean valuable insights and pave the way for growth. In the end, it’s the simple yet profound words—whether “Something will happen” or “We responded”—that ignite the spark of hope and resilience in those we lead.

Next Moves for Dynamic Leadership Action: Reflection on Communication

-Reflect: Find intentional time to reflect on the words you use as a leader to comfort or inspire during a crisis.

-Write: Jot down those words and statements you use. Reflect upon the meaning and intention in each of those words. Do they empower? Do they avoid judgement or placing blame?

-Share: Find a trusted thought partner and share words to gain feedback and growth.

-Connect: With people you serve and collaborate, take time as a group to discuss words used during a crisis. Establish kinship and understanding along with ensuring that meanings are understood.

Whether serving as a soothing balm in times of crisis or bringing clarity to chaos, our words hold the power to inspire and uplift. Being intentional with our words is a necessary move as a leader. We are the navigators of our narrative and we must choose our words with care, compassion, and intention.